Do you want to change now
Recording 01 of 07
The first honest question beneath the mind
The meeting begins with a blunt invitation: Do you want to change now, not as an idea, but in the body where reality is.
LENGTH: 1 HOURS AND 22 MINUTES
LANGUAGE: ENGLISH
YEAR RECORDED: 1997
PLACE RECORDED: SYDNEY, AUSTRALIA
MAIN TOPICS
State of being, Raising children, Corruption of the world, Taking positions, Wanting to be right, Practical advice for relationships
SUMMARY
The ordinary life is described as disjointed: up today, down tomorrow, with brief spells of calm followed by excitement, then depression and discontent. This is not presented as fate, but as the predictable movement of mind and emotions, the self selecting actions to correct reactions, staggering from one foot to the other.
Change begins with self-honesty. The first workable place to change is where emotional reaction arises, especially in the force of wanting to be right, because rightness demands defence, position, and stubbornness that cannot love in that moment.
The solution is practical and immediate: surrender 'wanting to be right' while it is there, and discover what is real by what continues.