Gold Coast Talk - 1998 March

Character and personality; character is wellbeing; personality is the frontal face of the person; defending your self; effect of alcohol ~ Purpose in relationship ~ If ever you are angry, you are not being honest ~ Character is good that has no opposite; personality is winning/losing ~ Going into Me (6 mins)

Question: I would like to be free of insecurity - what can I do practically to overcome that? The monitor; conscience ~ Question: What if your partner is not interested in the spiritual life? ~ Physical ailments ~ The fact of death ~ Question: How can I put your teaching into practice when I'm still dreaming about my past love? ~ Question: Do the personality and the self take time to die? ~ Detachment from partner when there's a child; keep things practical; explain the truth of life to the child

Clarification of ego and self; the capital 'S' higher self ~ Choosing a lover from your self; you've got to be practical; alcoholics and drugtakers ~ Parenting: everything has to be practical ~ Ego and instinct ~ Woman's intuition ~ What benediction did you receive today? Gratitude ~ The earth and the world; scientists are driven by the world ~ Question: I don't seem to be going as deep as I want to go into love; familiarity

Making love morning, noon and night. Woman is the mystery and man is the means. Acknowledge what you love and don't particularise it ~ Question: Does the divine life include being by yourself and not being with woman? Realising God out of existence and God in existence; celibacy; secrets ~ Going out of existence in lovemaking. Lovemaking leads to the truth and truth leads to love ~ Question: Resistance to making love ~ Question: Restlessness in man and stillness in lovemaking ~ Question: How can I go deeper in making love without cutting off out of fear? ~ To be content; longing; thy will be done