Growing old in Love
Recording 02 of 04
Staying open to the possibility of love at any age
Aging often brings a heightened sense of perspective. Work and career pressures typically recede, children grow up and become independent, and many of the responsibilities that once seemed urgent begin to fall away. Yet, for some, there is also a sense of finality—an assumption that certain doors are closed for good. Barry speaks to this aspect, and encourages remaining open to life and love.
LENGTH: 1 HOURS AND 10 MINUTES
LANGUAGE: ENGLISH
YEAR RECORDED: 1991
PLACE RECORDED: BRISTOL, UK
MAIN TOPICS
Aging, Practical advice for relationships, Woman and love
SUMMARY
In this talk Barry Long addresses those who are growing older — especially women — urging them to remain open to love, regardless of age or past experiences. He acknowledges that many in their fifties, sixties, or seventies may feel content without a partner and even find the idea of relationship burdensome. Nonetheless, he emphasizes that if love — or the possibility of a good, honest partnership—presents itself, one should be receptive and that age is no barrier to intimacy or genuine connection when it arises naturally and without force.
Central to Barry's message is the need to be at peace within oneself, cultivating a sense of well-being and integrity in every aspect of life. By getting one's life right and releasing emotional states such as fear, resentment, or longing, we create the internal space for the right person to appear — at the right time and under the right circumstances. He cautions against living in a state of restless yearning; instead, trusting that when love is meant to come, it will, and it will arrive as part of life's inherent goodness.
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