Purpose in love, partnership, and aloneness

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Moving beyond enjoyment to right purpose in every condition

Barry exposes purposelessness in love, partnership, and aloneness, and insists that real purpose is stillness—being now—while love between man and woman becomes purification and depth without losing intelligent attention.

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LENGTH: 2 HOURS AND 35 MINUTES
LANGUAGE: ENGLISH
YEAR RECORDED: 1996
PLACE RECORDED: GREENMOUNT RESORT, COOLANGATTA, GOLD COAST, AUSTRALIA

MAIN TOPICS

Purpose of making love, Purpose of life, Spiritual partnership, Fulfilment in partnership, Beauty in the senses, Angels, Spirit guides, New Age teachings, Natural vs Normal, Teaching children, Raising children, Endings and letting go in relationship, Gnostics, Martial arts, Knowing when you are loved

SUMMARY

The talk begins by testing whether love, partnership, or solitude truly 'go forward.' Purpose is not external progress but inner rightness: a deepening towards truth. Man's first task in love is to purify himself—habits, anger, moods—so he can take woman deeper into her being. Woman's love draws him inward, but both must guard against losing intelligence in the seductive magnetism of bodies. Purpose is maintained by the power to stand back while giving all. He then unmasks the mind's opposites—good/bad, beauty/ugliness—and shows that God has no opposite; beauty is within and is known by acknowledging only the good. Equilibrium means not moving in elation or depression at praise or blame. Gratitude keeps detachment in work and love. Imagination, angels, and guides are set aside in favour of immediate reality. The movement culminates in 'being' versus 'awareness': consciousness is within, prior to sense-awareness. Seeking enlightenment fails; being natural, innocent, and absent of self succeeds. The power of inaction—the emanation of being—reorganises life without compromise. Questions explore stopping thought, raising children, religious conditioning, sex versus love, pain, and the discovery that all we need is within.




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